Showing posts with label thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label thoughts. Show all posts

Sunday, February 17, 2008

On Being Politically Correct



I would love to have the courage and freedom, as the little boy in the following story, to stand tall and say "But the Emperor has no clothes!" as I am right now aware of an Emperor strutting around in just such imaginary finery. The people are saying "yes, if only I were more worthy, I could see..." **sigh** What is really bothering me right now, I am standing among the crowd of those saying "yes, yes, I see", yet knowing their feelings of unworthiness because they do not see. I only pray that God will keep my eyes open that I may never BE that Emperor.

Unfortunately, as in the story, the little boy MUST be silenced for it is considered heartless to tell the Emperor he is wearing no clothes! Better for the crowd to take on the shame of seeing him naked and feeling responsible than to let the truth be said so the sucker can put some clothes on.

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Many years ago there lived an Emperor who cared so much for fine clothes that he spent all his money upon them. He gave no thought to his soldiers nor to the affairs of his empire. He had a new coat for every hour of the day and spent most of his time riding through the streets that everyone might see his handsome clothes.

One day there came to the city two rogues who set themselves up as weavers. They said they knew how to weave the most wonderful cloth in the world. The patterns and the colors were marvelously beautiful, they said; but the cloth could not be seen by anyone who was stupid or unfit for his office.

"I must have some clothes made from this cloth," thought the Emperor. "When I wear them, I shall find out what men in my empire are not fit for their places. I shall know the clever men from the dunces. Those weavers must be brought to me at once."

So the two rogues came to the palace. The Emperor gave them a vast sum of money that they might begin their work without delay.

The rogues immediately put up two great looms, and pretended to be working. They called for the finest silks and the brightest gold, but these they put into their pockets. They worked steadily at the empty looms until far into the night.

Day after day the Emperor could hear the rattling of the looms. He became very curious to see the wonderful clothes; and he decided to send someone to find how the weavers were getting on. But he remembered that no one who was stupid or was unfit for his office could see the cloth.

"I will send my faithful old Minister to the weavers," thought the Emperor. "He is a very clever man, and no one is more worthy of his office than he."

So the good old Minister went into the room where the two rogues sat working at the empty looms. He stared and stared, and opened his eyes wide.

"Mercy on us!" he thought. "I can't see a thing." But he said nothing at all.

"Step a little nearer," said the rascals. "Is not this a beautiful pattern? And the colors - are they not wonderful?" And they pointed to the empty looms.

The poor old Minister put on his spectacles, and bent over the looms; but he could see nothing, for there was nothing to see!"

"Mercy!" he said to himself. "Is it possible that I am unfit for my office? Certainly no one must know it. Am I a dunce? It will never do say that I can not see the stuff!"

"Well, sir, what do you think of it?" asked one of the rogues.

"Oh, it is charming - beautiful," said the old Minister, as he peered through his spectacles. "The colors are gorgeous and the pattern is very fine. I shall tell the Emperor that I am much pleased with your work."

"We are glad indeed to hear you say so," said the rascals. And they went on talking of the cloth. They named the colors, and described the peculiar pattern. The old Minister listened carefully, for he wished to repeat to the Emperor all that was said.

Soon the rogues began to ask for more silk and more gold thread to use in their work. All that was given to them they put into their pockets. Not a single strand of silk was ever put on the loom.

The Emperor sent another faithful friend to see the cloth and inquire how soon the clothes would be ready. But this man fared no better than the Minister. He stood before the empty looms, and looked and looked and looked, but he saw no cloth.

"Is not this beautiful stuff?" asked the two rogues. And then they praised the gorgeous coloring and explained the peculiar pattern, which was not there at all.

"Dear, dear!" thought the man. "Surely I am not stupid. It must be that I am unfit for my office. That is very strange. But I must not let it be known."

"Ah!" said he. "The design is most unusual; and the color is marvelous. I shall tell the Emperor what fine progress you are making."

Soon every one in the city was talking about the wonderful cloth that the two weavers were making. The Emperor thought that he would like to see the beautiful cloth while it was still upon the looms. With a number of his courtiers he went to visit the two rogues, who were weaving rapidly day after day without any thread.

Among the courtiers were the two men who had already been there. They thought that the others would see something upon the empty looms, so they began to cry out at once, "Look, your Majesty. Do you see the beautiful design? And the color - is it not gorgeous?"

"What is this?" thought the Emperor. "I see nothing at all! Am I not fit to be Emperor? Am I a dunce? If that were known, I should be deposed."

"Yes, yes, it is very pretty," said the Emperor aloud. "I could not be better pleased."

He smiled and nodded his head, and stared at the empty looms. His courtiers, too, looked and looked, but saw no more than the others. Yet they all cried, "It is wonderful." And they asked the Emperor to wear a suit made from this cloth in a great procession that was soon to take place.

The Emperor gave each of the rogues a royal badge to wear, and called them the Imperial Court Weavers.

As the day of the procession came nearer, the two rogues worked with might and main. They were up the whole of the night before, and kept more than sixteen candles burning.

Through the shining windows the people could see them hard at work. They took yards of nothing down from the empty looms. They made cuts in the air with big scissors. They sewed strong stitches without any thread; and at last they said, "The clothes are ready."

The Emperor, with his grandest courtiers, went to put on his new suit.

The rogues lifted their arms as if holding something. "See!" they said. "Here is the coat! Here is the cape! Here are the trousers! The cloth is as light as a spider's web. You may move as freely as if you had nothing on. That is the beauty of it."

"It is marvelous," said the courtiers. And yet all the time they saw nothing, for there was nothing.

"Will your Majesty be pleased to take off your suit?" asked the rogues. "Then we will put on the new garments before the long mirror."

The Emperor took off his clothes, and the rogues pretended to put on each new garment as it was ready. They wrapped him about, they buttoned and they tied.

"How well his Majesty looks in his new suit!" said his courtiers. "What a becoming style! What beautiful colors!"

The Emperor turned round and round before the mirror, and looked and looked, and nodded his head.

"They are waiting outside with the canopy which is to be carried over your Majesty during the procession," said one of his officers.

"I am ready," said the Emperor. He gave one last look in the mirror, as if he were admiring his new finery.

The two men who were to carry the train of the Emperor stooped down to the floor, as if picking up something; and then they held their hands high in the air and moved forward. They did not dare let it be known that they saw nothing.

The Emperor marched along under the handsome canopy, and all his officers marched behind him, in gorgeous clothes. But the people in the streets and at the windows gazed only at the Emperor, for they all wanted to see the wonderful cloth.

"How handsome the Emperor's clothes are!" they all cried. "What a perfect fit! What marvelous colors!"

No one would say that he could see nothing, for that would have proved him very stupid and unfit for his office. No clothes of the Emperor had ever been so much admired.

"But he has nothing on!" said a little child.

"Hush! Hush!" said its father.

But the people began to whisper to one another what the child had said; "He has nothing on! A child says he has nothing on!"

Soon all the people were saying aloud, "But, he has nothing on!"

The Emperor hear what they said, and he shivered, for he knew that their words were true. But it would never do to stop the procession; and so he held himself stiffer than ever. And behind him his officers carried the invisible train.

Rewritten by Hans Christian Andersen from an old Spanish story

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Looking Closely


Suzie walked up to me at work today to share a tidbit. “I hope you didn’t see Patsy today. You would be angry if you saw how she's dressed today” she proclaimed.

“Hmmmm” I thought to myself. “Do I get angry that easily? I don't think I anger that easily.”

Suzie went on to tell me how Patsy was dressed, commenting her certainty it would never pass the dress code. To tell the truth, I don’t even know what she said Patsy was wearing as I was too taken back by the fact that Suzie was standing in front of me in dirty tennis shoes, too-short sweatpants and a sweatshirt…telling me how tacky Patsy was dressed today. Surely Patsy’s outfit couldn’t rival Suzie’s for “tacky in the workplace”.

It got me thinking, though. How many times have each of us rained criticism on another while ignoring our own failings? How many times have I done just that thing? Frankly, that’s quite a scary thought. Did Suzie not realize I wouldn’t be seen in public dressed like she was today, much less in a professional office where dress code is business casual? How many times have I myself been so blind, acted so foolishly? I shudder to think.

“And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?”

Mat 7:3

Names changed...



Monday, November 26, 2007

Life begins at 50

The mundane can take on a magical beauty when God is in it.

I love being 50. But I have decided I'm a slow learner, very methodical, things take time to really soak in. When I was ready to hit the "big 4-0" people (well, at least one person multiple times) would tell me that it's "all downhill". Apparently, once you hit 40 things start falling apart, the mind grows dim, the body develops aches and pains and begins to break down in all kinds of ways.

Be that as it may, and I'm not sure I agree with that, I LOVE being 50. That's probably because it took me 40 years to grow up. (Well, "grow up" is a relative term after all.) Until I turned 40, life just went along pretty much as planned. There were few mysteries or surprises. I knew about God, I wanted to know Him better, but it seemed mostly one-sided to me. God was pretty silent. Maybe because I was trying to get Him to follow me on the path I was choosing, maybe because I hadn't learned how to listen at all.

But sometime after 40 I guess God figured there was enough foundation to start messing with me without me totally falling apart. Sometime around 40 I told Him that I'd done a pretty poor job running my life, and He was welcome to step in and take over any time, and I meant it. And for the past 10 years He's been doing just that.

He teaches me over and over (and over...and over....and...) to let go. That is such a difficult thing to do. Often He has to bring me to the point where I have no other choice. But that is when the most incredible things happen.

So why do I love being 50? It's because I can now look back and see so many amazing things that God has done. Miracles! Not just in my life, but in the lives of those around me.

Can you relate?

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Illusions


We went back to our family church this morning. Just a visit. At my sister's encouragement, our family almost filled three pews. As a matter of fact, I think our family was about half the attendance this morning. Maybe not, but close.

They had a special speaker this morning. She shared that she had a very rough first 40 years, yet she doesn't regret it. I didn't get the impression she and I had the same circumstances at all, but she does appear to look at her tough years like I do mine...they were preparation for the rest of her life. She has moved on, those years have made of her a better witness and a better person.

Sometimes I look at how much I've grown and I feel ready to take on whatever God might want of me. I feel strong; I feel destiny pulling me toward the road ahead. Then I'll say or do something stupid and I know it's all just an illusion. I realize just how little I've actually grown, and I'll spend the rest of the day miserably aware that I will never be what I want to be. I question whether God could ever use me at all. I feel destined to nothingness.

*sigh* I know that all God wants is for us to live each day for itself, listening for His voice in the smallest of circumstances. I guess it's human nature for us to aspire to greatness. I guess, in the end, it's just human pride.

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Changing Seasons


I sit in our home office gazing over my desk through the curtainless window. The bright golden yellow of the fall leaves outside practically glow against the clear blue winter sky as they fall gently to the ground. one by one, shimmering with the icy white snow that glitters amidst the gold. It makes me remember how happy I am to live where I do.

It also makes me remember I need to get my day-dreaming butt in gear and get the cold weather plastic kits on the windows before we get our next heating bill!

Thursday, November 22, 2007

Giving Thanks

These turkeys live in thankful safety across the road...thankful we hunt our bird in the local grocery meat section

I Am Thankful…

1. For my husband, my daughters, my granddaughters, my parents, my grandparents, my brother and sister, and the rest of my creatively functional family.

2. For the beautiful small bit of country property on which I live.

3. For a healthy, functioning body that still knows how to heal itself and take occasional gastronomic abuse from it’s owner.

4. For being born to live in a country where I have the right to complain about the country in which I live.

5. For a job that gives me a sense of purpose, as well as meeting my needs.

6. For animals, some of which have been great friends.

7. For the opportunity to live in such a delightful climate which gives me just enough cold and
snow to be happy when it’s not cold and snowy, and just enough summer heat to make me happy when fall chill hits the air.

8. For friends who put up with my sometimes creatively dysfunctional personality.

9. For continual opportunities to stretch and grow in all kinds of directions.

10. For the occasional (read…‘constant’) surprises that keep life from being boring.

11. For the grace of miracles in my life that have kept me from permanent consequences from my mistakes.

12. For trials and challenges that create in me an ever-growing relationship with God, my Father.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

People Need the Lord


Life is a struggle. I honestly don't know how people do it without a firm faith in God. I look around me and see so much pain and heartache. People are hurting, they dwell in anger, they hurt each other in their attempts to find something to fill the unquenchable void in their lives. When faced with decisions they seem destined to always make the wrong one.

I see others facing unimaginable trials. Pain, uncertain futures. And yet they dwell in peace, acceptance. They look to others for support, and reach out to help, looking beyond their own hardships.

What is the difference in these lives? It's simple...a faith in God that allows them to rest in the knowledge that they are never alone. They know that God loves them, and though we can never understand the hard times we know that He will give us the strength to endure. And we know that at the end of this hard road is an eternal joy.

Kind of like the labor pains that end in the unspeakable joy of seeing the face of a new life, precious and as yet untouched by this world. As I watch newborn Paige sleeping peacefully she will sometimes smile. Mom says it's a tummy ache. I think it's because the thoughts placed in her innocent, untouched little mind are yet only those put there from the Father.